In her account of her experiences as a single mother, Mercy Aigbe emphasized the challenges she has faced.
She stated that nobody should have to deal with the difficulties of being a single mother.
During an episode of Real Talk with Kike, Mercy talked about her experience of being the only parent.
Recently, Mercy Aigbe, a Nigerian actress, talked about the difficulties she has had as a single mother and said she does not wish single parenthood on anyone.
Mercy recently discussed her own experience of raising children alone in an open and honest manner on the Real Talk with Kike show. Earlier, the Ada Omo Daddy actress came under fire for acknowledging that she had been strict with her children while they were growing up.
Mercy clarified that being a single mother is challenging since it necessitates that one individual fulfill two roles. She said that the path has not been simple and that she frequently prays for her kids to have long-lasting relationships. Bringing attention to the emotional toll single motherhood takes, she stated, “I don’t wish single motherhood on anybody.”
What she said:
As a single mother, I find that raising a child… To all the single mothers out there, you are heroes. Having to play two roles is not easy. Since it wasn’t an easy path, I am quite sensitive when I discuss my experience as a single mother. Whenever I pray for Michelle, I also pray for the children I raise nearby who are not my biological children but are nonetheless my children. Life occurs, I tell them, especially the girls. Many of us had no intention of having this kind of romantic life, but life occurs and we wish for the best for our children. I constantly remind my kids that what they do for the first time will be with them forever. Since it’s exhausting, I don’t wish it on anyone.
Mercy also disclosed that she was afraid of failing as a mother, which was a major factor in her harsh behavior toward her children. She didn’t want her children to go through what she saw as failure in her job as a single parent in the past.
“It was explained by her:
“I believe that because I had failed at this, I didn’t want to fail as a mother, which is part of the reason I was so hard on my children. Because I was pushing them too hard and denying them the opportunity to be who they wanted to be and make mistakes in order to learn from them, I didn’t even want them to make mistakes, not realizing that it was a necessary part of their life’s journey. I didn’t want people to make fun of me and claim that since they were raised by a single mother, they are incapable of doing anything nifty. “Having to show up financially, emotionally, morally, and mentally is really taxing,” she said.
Through her candor, Mercy Aigbe illuminates the intricate emotional and practical obstacles that single mothers encounter when parenting their kids.
Here are some remarks:
“I agree with her 👏, and she’s speaking from her experience,” said @Sabiigirlfashion.
@ivyjones1 the chef: That sentence… They simply need to be successful! 👍 At all, they have no choice. Additionally, with God on each mother’s side, victory is guaranteed!🙌
“You also made someone a single mother,” said @Blakkgolde.
@Mz_teehanah: “You didn’t need pity, someone is already unmarried because of you, so it’s okay.”
“But you married a man who promised his legal wife monogamy,” said @You_gooh. Ojukokokoro. departed your marriage because your husband smashed and demolished a woman’s house, dammit.
@Waledarep: “You’ve already made someone one, and I don’t wish it on anyone else 😂.”
@Classic_ulo: You took someone’s husband, but you gave it to someone even though you didn’t wish it on them? Women drink tea.
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@Tfroshbaby: “Honestly, it’s mentally taxing 😢😢😢 I’ve spent years training my two girls by myself. Even though it is physically and financially taxing, we manage to survive every day.
The term “single mother home” should be changed to “absente father home,” according to @Rubydennis2090. The person who chose to take responsibility should not be held accountable because she could easily ABANDON the child and the news would report it.
Marie_Virtuals: But you chased a woman out of her life? You even harass her by posting images and videos. You can tell that everyone knows how to talk like a decent person, Inu yin o daa rara.
